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Originally Posted by CJaneG
I have found that often my greatest sources of healing come from unexpected sources ... people who have points of view that, at first, make me angry or defensive or sad ... usually some negative emotion. But after a while I grow and learn and come around to a place I would never have thought I would end up.
Don't be too narrow with your choices ... people with exactly the same beliefs as you in the same life situation often just fuel your current feelings without challenging you to learn and grow ... not always a nice process, but necessary for healing.
Jane
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Jane
You are correct and I agree. My situation is that Ive recieved input from Christians, non-christians, buddhist, new-agers, adoptive parents, etc, etc,, etc,,,
and its all been good BUT....Ive havent found a male, around my age with the same belief system, struggling with similar issues.
So, Ive been down the path that you are suggesting and am looking to go down a different path.
But, I really appreciate your thoughts and idea.
Thanks!