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imho
you should reach out and try, preparing yourself in advance for any outcome. why?
because you have an invisible bond with this man, which is it natural and healty to try to pursue when possible. because you have a RIGHT to want to know him, even if he is unable or unwilling to respond. i don't blame you for feeling afraid after what happened with your bmother, but it seems that this must be something important or it would be easy to just "forget about it" and go on with your life.
at the very least, you deserve a chance to see if you can make a connection with this man, your birth father.
best of luck to you
keep us posted
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