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Originally Posted by Lissa
For some reasons there are certain days it is harder to accept I can't go to China again to adopt than others. Today was one of those days. I'm not looking for sympathy...it's just a strange phenomena that I am commenting about. Yesterday it didn't matter that I couldn't go back, but today I was really sad. Funny huh?
Russell and I still can't come to an agreement about adopting a second time. Some days I am okay with that...others not so okay. There is this part of me that doesn't want to adopt again if it's not from China, and another part that doesn't care.
It's so strange...with Lydia, it was so easy...so simple. Is the second time around harder for everybody? I would assume no, but just wondering.
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We also don't qualify (that darn net worth issue), but given the long wait for NSN - we would not go that route. I would be interested in SN from China if we ever want to adopt again, but at the same time - I would also be interested in other Asian countries. But then I think it would be good if our children were from the same country. And then I go back to the thought that we can't afford to adopt again, and DH only wants one child anyways (so even if we could afford it, I woudl have to convince him - which I probably could).
So yes, at times it is hard. But if Charlotte is our one and only - I feel completely blessed regardless. I know you feel the same way, too
