Do I Make Contact?
I am 39 years old. I found my bio mom when I was 17...twenty two years ago who denied she even gave birth to me. At that time, I met my bio sister 2 years older than me who confimed along with 2 bio aunts I was her child. I found out I had a biological brother and was never was in contact with him. I have no idea if he knows I exist. I have had no further contact with the family since then and don't know if they would even want to re-establish contact. I no longer know how to get in touch with them. But my real dilemma is: Found my biological brother's profile on Classmates.com. I want to contact him, but the initial rejection at 17 is still painful to think about and I don't know if emotionally I could handle another rejection.
What if he has no idea I existed? A sister at 38? Why invest time, why even believe it? I don't know what I should do.
Suzi
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