[adopteejenny]

Meeting my birth family was the best experience in my life. I have never been close to my adopted family and I feel guilty saying so but it's true. My A-mom and I haven't gotten a long for a really long time. We have different views about everything and just don't talk very often. So when I found out that my birth mom wanted to meet me, it was an amazing feeling. I don't hold a grudge against her because she did the right thing for herself at the time. But I am recently engaged and I am planning my wedding. I'm nervous about the whole event because that will probably be the first time that both of my moms meet. I don't know how I should act, if it would be ok for me to call my birthmom "mom" and how they should be involved in my wedding. PLEASE HELP!!!