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Well, as hard as it is, I would just ask her. I know in my reunion, I was not exactly my upfront self at first for fear of losing contact with my bmom if I scared her. There were some things I wanted to say, but did not because of this fear. So, as hard as it is, just ask her.
As far as therapy goes, if you think it would help then do it! There are days I think I need it, too. If not therapy is there an adoption support group in your area? That might help to talk to others in a face to face setting about some of the reunion issues. They can be overwhelming!
I have decided my reunion, as good as it is, has made me resort back to about 18 for some reason. I am an insecure young adult again and do not act like the confident woman I know I have become. I just wish I could look like I was 18 again!
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