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Originally Posted by stinky_kitty
I'm currently on the other side of things and I'll just say that I honestly don't think reunion is ever easy. My reunion with my firstmom went fairly smoothly, but it was still at times difficult, mostly emotionally.
It's hard to say what she is dealing with emotionally, it takes some people longer than others to work through it all. However, I don't see why she hasn't been able to provide you with medical information??
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I just found out recently that she'd been contacting someone that knew my family and knew about the adoption all these years and had been getting all sorts of information about my life from them. So it was very odd when I finally got to the point where I wanted to share major things from my life with her she said "I knew that already!"
She insists that she's 'worked through it' and 'gotten therapy' but I don't know if that's the case or not.
Her excuses for the medical information were weird, that i know that I have some illnesses already, that she had to go on a trip and would do it later, then that she had to work and hasn't had time. Basically I'm sort of at the same place I've been all these years being an adoptee.
