[jazzdrummer]

Originally Posted by Lumpkin

You didn't say that you wanted to speak with an "adopted" male who is a Christian. Yes, you are in a Christian Adoptee Fellowship forum, but others regularly visit a variety of forums, as sometimes it is very helpful to receive honest input from others with an outside perspective of a common situation.
I too had considered offering any assistance, as I consider myself Christian. However, I am an parent of adoptive children, and didn't figure I'd have much to help you with. If you do need advice, or just a sounding board, we're here for you regardless of whether we have been adopted, have adopted children, or have placed children for adoption.

Good point. I should have been specific.

Thanks