As parents, whether by adoption or birth, it is our job to help kids manage and process their emotions. I think the best example of this is my friend Jen. Please read her blog. There are a bunch of incredibly moving examples of stellar adoptive parenting that chronical her one son's reunion in July. I am giving you the link to her take on the flip side with her other son.
http://anickelsworthofcommonsense.bl...g-one-who.html