It is so easy to over analyze when building a relationship with the birth parents we haven't been with all these years. My opinion is that since your bdad told you he wants to be in touch then it is best to trust him and call him if you want to talk to him. He maybe sitting there thinking the same thing not sure if he should call you again. I went through this with both my bparents and they have been married many years now and when I want to talk with one of them I call and if they can't talk we pick a time that is better for both of us and talk then. In the beginning of our relationship we found it easier to set a time for talks that way we knew the other was expecting it then as time went on it became easier to call whenever we feel like talking. I still do most the calling and at times that is difficult but that is what works best for us so that is what I do. The best thing you can do is follow your heart and trust them with the things they tell you.... that is how good relationships are built. Best wishes to all of you in your journey.
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