Ok, I have been in reunion now for almost 7 months with bmom. things are going ok...had one f2f and have been planning another but her plans fall through all the time.
Ok..now for my problem..it has to do with bdad.
I found him and had one phone conversation last month. I think its been about 3 weeks. I don't know if I should call him or not. He called me and said he wanted to keep in touch.
I fear calling him because his family might not know about me yet. I am a result of an extra marital affair.
So you can see my problem.
He is separated from his wife, but I think he was a little worried about telling his oldest daughter. We are almost the same age. She is older. He said that he was going to tell her but haven't heard from him since.
I am wondering if he doesn't want contact, or if things went wrong when he told his daughter or what.
Should I call him? What if someone else answers?
I found my 1/2 brother, his son on myspace.
I don't know if i should contact him..this could be very weird.
I was happy because my bdad's sister and brother welcomed me warmly and had several emails from them..but all that has stopped since I spoke to bdad on the phone.
What does all this mean?
