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lovemy6 - I can see how things would be so much different in your situation, since the children lived with their bios as their parents for a time.
Gracemetcalf - Are you planning on adopting older children? I adopted a newborn infant and am in an open adoption. Visits were a little more nerve wracking in the beginning (new mom nerves!!) - but now they are just a nice chit chat get together. M does not see his birthmom as his "mom" as she has never played that role in his life (nor does she wish to or in anyway disrespect my role as his mom!!)
This is the exact thinking that I think scares people away...and thus the point of my post!!!!
What else scares you?? Let's discuss!!
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Leigh
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