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Divorce, death, illness, those things happen, you can't control them. I certainly wouldn't be mad at my son's my mom and dad. If his parents staying together, even if they were miserble, was so he could have both of them... man I'd rather they were apart and were better parents alone and happy. That is life.
If they both passed on, I'd hope that they would leave instructions about our OA just so that I wouldn't get closed out. They know that kiddo is included in my will and my parent's will.
Neglect or abuse, I'd be livid. That is still my child no matter what legal documents say. I'm not sure what I would do to be honest. I'm with TGM the thought is too painful to even consider.
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First mom to the amazing Kiddo and adopted adult.
1-4-2009 Mom and I visit Kiddo despite the bad weather. He really loved the blue mittens I made him and even helped me plan my living room. Apparently Hot Wheels wallpapper is the way to go.
2-16-2009 I got a promotion, that comes with a raise. Mom and Dad are visiting and we're going to Al's for pie to celebrate.
4-27-2009 Dad surprises me with a Lady Ugly Stick (an awesome fishing rod that is pink) and a 2nd Iowa Light Artillery Battery jacket. I'm a lucky girl!
5-30-2009 Kiddo turns five. It is hard to believe he is that old already, it seems like just yesterday he was being born. I was at peace for the first time on his birthday, what a nice feeling.
6-13&14 2009 A cannon live fire in Casper WY. We got third place and I got to see Devil's Tower for the first time, it was pretty awesome.
7-4-2009 Amelia the kitten comes to live with me and Liz. Talk about jealousy, Liz will adjust though.
Last edited by belleinblue1978 : 08-09-2008 at 06:23 AM.
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