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Raven,
How are you measuring being a good daughter? If you can't go sit with her and it sounds like you have some VERY good reasons to feel the way you do, then try to do what you can do from afar. Call in the local elder services, set up what ever you can and only do what you really can only do.
You will be judged by anyone and everyone that has an opinion(kinda like adoption) so you need to do only what you can do to protect yourself.
If finances are not a problem you could hire a case manager that can do a lot of the "daughterly thing...setting up md appoinments, checking meds ect.
Do you have a sibs that can help out?
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