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We also had to let go of a fs we were in the process of adopting. My heart still aches inside, but I know it was the right decision. I truly understand what you are feeling and pray that with time you will feel better. I try to look at the positives. My little boy 18 mo old has come alive and seems so much happier, probably because I am not so grumpy and moody anymore. I've also learned alot from this situation. I use to think I could handle anything and pretty much adopt any child well I know my limits now. We will only adopt or foster in birth order(meaning they have to be the baby of the family) The child we take into our home will be younger than the youngest. I also would like to wait for one adoption or foster placement to be finished before we comit to another. This is just right for our family, other families may do things totally different. These are just the few things I have learned from what we've been through.
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