We have 4 kiddos...
Oldest doesnt really have a preference...
Middle son had to have me for the 1st year.... after that, he has switched his loyalties to daddy.
Youngest son definalty prefers daddy... and has since he came home (at 17 months old)
Little girl prefers me, but loves daddy too.
My dh is a sahd and I am beginning law school in 10 days.
It seems that the kids tend to sway their loyalties depending on the day... Sometimes, I come home to "mommy, mommy, mommy" and sometimes they dont even want to turn their attention away from what they are doing.... however, they give their dad the same treatment... so... I try not to worry bout it.
It can be difficult when they first come home... but it can work!
Good luck with your arrangement!!!!
We should get a group of these sahd's together!