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Old 08-08-2008, 11:23 AM
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Julie, that's so exciting! What a big decision, but one that sounds like it will work well for your family. I could never let DH stay home--I'd be way too jealous!

Anyway, I don't have any advice for you other than not to stress about it. Spend as much time with him as you possibly can and it will all fall into place.

On another note, I'm totally against lying to your employer, but do they HAVE to know before your p/u trip that DH is going to be the primary caregiver? Maybe you can still work out a few weeks leave? Good luck--I'm sure this is a decision that is full of emotion for you and your DH.
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