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DH is a SAHD. I teach so I work M-F 7 am until about 4 pm. DH is a church musician, so he works evenings and weekends. When I am at home I am "in charge" of DS. I took about 12 weeks off of work in the beginning. DS has bonded well with both of us, but he has a definite preference for mommy. The key for us has been establishing times where we are "in charge." We make every effort possible to not schedule meetings, appointments, etc. during those times. In fact, if I have to do an evening meeting (which happens often with my church involvement) I take my son with me. It is known that that is my time to spend with my son and, meeting or not, he is coming with me.
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Kristy
July 27, 2006 - Applied to agency
December 4, 2006 - Jaden is born
January 2007 - Referral
April 13, 2007 - Met Jaden for the first time
May 3, 2007 - PA
May 22, 2007 - Entered PGN
July 12, 2007 - OUT!!!
August 27, 2007 - Jaden is placed in my arms forever!
August 28, 2007 - Embassy Appointment
August 30, 2007 - HOME!!!!
Jaden wants a little sister!
June 30, 2008 - Application is in the mail
July 9, 2008 - First HS appointment (review paperwork)
July 30 - HS visit
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