[jbee]

i can tell you why some of ours were moved...
set of three boy sibs, oldest exposed himself to dh, we have two little girls of our own and cannot risk that behavior. cw would not move just him, moved them all. next month, oldest kills several cats and is moved to residential hospital facility. the other two stayed where they are.
15yo girl has a meltdown one night, starts talking about hurting herself and how she can accuse dh of abuse to get him in trouble (all over because she cannot have a cellphone...). next day cw decides to move her. she later realizes what she's done and wants to come back, but you can't unring a bell. we were open to having her. she moves through another fhome, then goes to a preadoptive one, gets disrupted b/c not a good fit, is now in a residential up the street from us.
our son's mom turned 18, signed herself out of care, went mia for awhile, got terminated.
so those are our experiences. two of three, cw would not listen to us and made snap decisions.