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It's hard, but I say do it if possible so this child will still be in the family.
Do go talk with all the experts you need--a counselor, an adoption attorney.
And have a frank conversation with little sister/birthmother. She needs to be clear she will NOT be co-parenting with you. She will not be the one to discuss the adoption with the child--that is your conversation to have with the child.
Talk about boundaries now to be sure everyone can live with them.
And then love your child, and live happily with your family.
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