mommy2fiveplus
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I just wondered why, after 50 years she doesn't want to know any of us, or even let the sisters get to know each other. I mean this other girl is an only child, if bmom dies that girl will be all that is left (her dad died already). It just seems strange to me. I know my mom isn't all about meeting either, she is still knida hesitant, but I think she would if invited. I know hse is curious about her 1/2 sister.
Besides it is just weird to know that there is this lady, that you occasionally see in the store and when you look at her you know that she shares your genetics and yet she is looking at you like you are a complete stranger, not realizing that you are sorta her niece.
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Secrets… hurt..
And I believe that when a woman gives her baby up and is sworn to secrecy she does not deal with any of it emotionally..
She just shuts it down and speaks no more..
Turning around and actually dealing with and/or speaking about those emotions can be close to impossible for some..
To be asked questions is devastating.. for some..
How could you do that? Is IMO the most feared..
Or what happened?
And one can be asked those questions anywhere.. at any time..
Jackie