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Originally Posted by Mama_K
I told them from the beginning we were all for them being the Aunt & Uncle, until they kept calling every two weeks, we had 3 dr. appts a week for M when he was placed in our care and had no time for just US. .
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Sorry---I didn't fully grasp all the details of M's journey in care.
They were calling once every two weeks? That doesn't seem excessive to me. In fact, it seems pretty reasonable. A ten minute call once every fourteen days doesn't seem at all out of line.
They shouldn't be driving by your house. But if you cut off contact suddenly, they may be very worried that the kid they love so much isn't safe. Have you thought about dropping them a line saying you saw them pass by, you thought they might be worried, and you wanted to let them know that M is doing great? Give them the benefit of the doubt. They might really be worried, in which case you'll allay their fears. And if they're just being stalkers, you'll have let them know that YOU know what they're up to.
I think we could all do so much better for kids if we could give each other the benefit of the doubt....