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Originally Posted by Mama_K
I have called and invited them to M's 1st B-day party in June. They came over to M and took him out of my arms, walked away from everyone there and started taking pictures of him, pictures of M with them. I have not a problem with them taking pictures, in fact I've sent them some, it's the point of them coming over and taking him out of my arms. They also told me that we wouldn't be having such a hard time with bd (my brother) if we would just let them adopt him, all this on M's 1st. B-day. I wanted it to be a joyous occasion for M, but he was scared of them and cried the whole time. He doesn't know them anymore, so should I keep trying to keep them involved in his life when doesn't know them? Is this in the best interest of M, or is it for the fp?
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I am going to be blunt here--just cut it off. He is just over one year old, he is happy with you, not having attachment problems, correct? This family is not supportive of this child and his new family. Contact right now is about the fparents, not the child. We are supposed to make decisions based on what is best for the child.
You don't need this, M does not need this. Say goodbye, put some pictures in an album for the questions he may ask someday, and go live your life with your child.