[Sohmakun]

I'm a single lesbian considering adopting internationally. I considered domestic adoption for a while but I realized my heart desires a male child between the ages of 12-36 months which is a rarity in domestic infant adoption. As I was researching international adoption I found that some countries are not allowing homosexuals to adopt at all and I was wondering would I have to lie in order to adopt. I posted this question in the Ethiopia adoption boards because I'm black and I would like a son that looks like me but I didn't get many responses and ethnicity is now starting to become irrelevant. I don't mind following a "don't ask, don't tell" policy but I refuse to lie in my home study or swear in court that I'm heterosexual when I know that not true.