Both my best friend and my younger sister offered to be a surrogate for us. But ultimately, it just came down to my deepest, gut feeling. And my heart lead me straight to adoption
I also felt that huge freeing feeling; such RELIEF to walk away from the IF rollercoaster. I was sooooo done with that. Will you always regret not trying again? Will that feeling of "what if" bother you? What does your husband think? If she hadn't made this offer, would you have sought out independent surrogacy? What are your fears about adoption? I guess those are the questions I asked myself when we were at our crossroads last summer. My God am I grateful I listened to that little voice in my head.
Goodluck!