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Thanks to everyone for the thoughts! I've pretty much decided not to do any more ART myself - so go right to surrogacy if that's our path. I'm with user ashmill - I just can't go through any more IVFs.
So now, it's a matter of deciding if we want to put adoption on hold and try with our surrogate or not. I'm a bit nervous to put the adoption on hold because I'm 35 and my husband is 39, and I feel like we're getting to the point where we'll almost be too old... not that my possible surrogate is getting any younger either!!
And then - if the frozens don't work, do I go through another retrieval? I'd most likely have more frozens b/c I produce a lot of eggs, so then this could be a vicious cycle.
Such a hard decision!
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