[tweg1]

I received an email from the a-dad that said that he has not talked to his son in a month. The phone # still restricts incoming calls. I will mail a letter again this week (sent one a week 1/2 ago no response) I am soo heartbroken to have started a "reunion" with two very short f2f meetings, neither with just him and I. Now I have no way to contact him or to know what is happening in his life. I cannot stop thinking of him and all the emotions I had saved up in me for him. I have to be patient which is hard when that seems all I think about.It scares me that he has returned to the world of drugs. I cannot imagine not having contact with my children for long periods at a time.But I do not have any experience with drug addiction (if that is what he has returned to). What are the stats for drug abuse in adopted children especially when there were abuse problems in the a-family??