[nikkianni]

My daughter is not lucky to have us. We are lucky to have her.
Had we not been chosen to be her parents, some other couple would have been blessed. So I guess I see things from aclee's perspective.
Our wonderful DD would have had a family, there are as aclee said thousands of couples waiting out there. We were the lucky ones to be chosen. We are the lucky ones who get to hold her, cuddle her, comfort her and raise her. That's our blessing, not hers.
Due to DD's developmental issues, we've heard a lot that we were "so good to take her." Like she's a damaged stray or something. I'm not even nice to those people. This is my child. Not my key to sainthood.