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I'm a birthmom with a 23 year old son. It was a completely closed adoption where I was told to 'forget about it, move on'. I know that's impossible!
We've been in reunion for 1 1/2 years now and that helps a lot.
I would make sure to address your feelings and how you think you might deal with the relinquishment of a child. I mention that because it was something I wasn't allowed to do really, and that made a difficult situation even harder. I do feel like I made the best decision at the time as far as the adoption goes. I just wish I'd know about open adoptions.
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