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Old 07-30-2008, 10:00 AM
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Originally Posted by c.a

I do appreciate your comments about it eventually embarrassing him - or at least opening up the conversation with him to see how he feels about it. For now (he's three) I feel that being open and openly celebrating his adoption will encourage him to feel positive about it.

I agree that being positive is important but I also think that always mentioning it could make him feel different rather than special.

I guess it depends on the child though...
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Decided on Guatemalan adoption: December 2004;
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