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Peachy I was thinking the same thing. Signing and the name IRL are different.
This all came up for us in our OA as well and the one thing that bothered me more than her signing things Mom or Mother was the term my daughter. WE did finally talk about this and we worked out that she would be able to sign as Mother X (not mom or mommy) and we all would use the term OUR daughter to include all in the triad but not exclude.
I also want to mention that it was easier for me to talk to BMom after finalization. We didn't have any visits or calls before finalization, just emails and so I let it go. After finalization I finally felt the necessary relief that we could set boundaries.
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