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I don't tell unless asked specifically
My kids are just that my kids I brought them all home from the hospital and except 1 my oldest none has ever had or seen any bios. While me and my kids talk adoption all the time its not something i discuss outside of my home my kids are just that to me my kids. my oldest daughter one time tole her friend that she was adopted after the friend asked why her and her siblings didn't look alike and the friend began to tell her her real mother must have been a "crackhead" because they are the only ones to throw their kids away. suprisingly my daughter wasn't bothered at all simply stater my real mother is right there and she's far from a crackhead, you should know because your real mother is always boring money, sugar or eggs from her. as far as the person whose stomache I grew in your right she is a drug addict but thankfully it doesnt affect my life. my daughter is 8 will be 9 in December. since this incident she has chosen not to share her story and that is her call. I simply do not tell any of my childrens stories; if asked I will admit they are adopted thru fostercare, but other than that I don't tell their personal stories. I will be glad to discuss fostercare/adoptions in general.
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