[LucyLuMyLuv]

I would definitely look into reading information about adopting out of birth order. For us, our daughter was 2 1/2 months younger than our other daughter upon coming home. Although we did not adopt out of birth order, we had more issues with our daughter already at home. Almost 4 years later we still deal with jealousy issues. That has been more of an issue than anything else. As for school -- we started her in school 2 weeks after coming home. She was so eager to learn. I had ESL set up immediately but they were only servicing her 2 times per week for 30 minutes and it was not enough. She was frustrated. I asked for more and they refused so I went through my Senator and it was increased to daily the same day. Her learning took off after that.