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I have a problem with "firstmother". It seems to indicate that there might be a "second mother". I am not the "second mother". I am the mother of all three of my sons.
My youngest also has his "birthmother" the woman who gave birth to him. Now that is her connection to him, the only connection. Someday maybe they will be friends also, but there is no mother-child bond/relationship anymore.
Same feelings for "firstfather" vs. "birthfather".
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