[mommy2fiveplus]

He is 6 yo now and it has been over three years since the adoption. I guess I knew that some of the family were ambivilant while he was in "foster care" even though it was our home but I figured after it was all official and he was adopted it would get better, like they would realize there is no going back and just come to terms with it and accept that he is now MY child which means my parenting take priority. That has not happened and some days I fear it never will, I try to explain my position but it falls of deaf ears. I think that relative adoptions is so much harder than foster-care (my other son is adopted through FC), there are so many dynamics I wish I could avoid.