[thanksgivingmom]

Ack, okay, so I could be TOTALLY wrong, but the people that I've come across in my life like that are just LIKE that - it may not even really have anything to do with her being your birthmom, you know?

On the other hand, maybe it does. That's so hard for me to comprehend that I couldn't really address it. Obviously Cupcake is just a baby (20 months already!) but I can't imagine doing anything to "mess" with her. I don't doubt that there are birthmoms that don't handle their relationships or reunions well...but I just truly believe that it's more about who they are as individuals not who they are as birthmothers.

Either way, the behavior is not cool and isn't acceptable, and I'm sorry you're having to deal with it.

(((((Brockster))))))