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Old 07-25-2008, 08:28 AM
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But she also seems to know that her feelings are wrong. Clearly, she sees her oldest sister as the "mother" and she was the baby until the new baby came along. Sort of sibling jealousy. Maybe instead of attacking her, encourage her to go to counseling? If she is going to be living there for another two years, it would be better - and safer - if she were a happy "big sister/aunt" to the baby. Who knows, she might even bond a little!
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