I placed 17 yrs ago and what your emom is going throw is all the normal decision makeing which is what she must do when placeing. She needs to see if she can parent this baby. Look at all her choices. See what is out there for her and her child. It is all a healthy process in an adoption plan. I know this must be hard on you not knowing but also for her. she is not sure if she can parent or if she can let someone else parent this baby? Looking at all she has to offer this baby is healthy becouse than if she chooses to place her baby she can than release her child with knowing she looked at all her options and this was the best choice for her and her child. I understand it being so scary for your family so I wish you the best in this time. I to did the same thing and looked at everything and with a full heart decided it was best to place so than I never regretted not looking at all my options or thinking oh if only I knew about this or that was out there for me I could of kept my baby. I knew I looked at everything and this was best for me. Scary ride for both of you. my adoption story
PictureTrail Best to you and hope this helps some. Tina