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Our daughter's adoption with her birthmother is semi-closed. We send letters/pics to the agency and they are holding them there for her bmother. As of yet, she has not gone to get them or see them. We did not choose this level of contact. We wanted a semi-open adoption (sending letters/pics back and forth thru the agency) with the hopes of developing a relationship with a bmother and possible future visits. But, that's not what she wanted... So, my daughter is almost 7 months, so I guess its working out at this point. It hard writing letters to a person I don't know; and its hard knowing that at this point, my letters are unwanted. But I hope that time will change that for bmom.
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Jen
Mom to my son Austin--3/31/02 (by birth)
Our adoption process for baby #2:
9/7/07--Submitted application to agency for domestic adoption
11/6/07--Homestudy Approved
11/29/07--Profile book complete and we are WAITING!
12/27/07--Matched!
12/28/07--Baby Girl Born
12/31/07--My daughter Savannah was placed in my arms forever 
7/9/08--Adoption Finalized!
After 10 years of IF/SIF, the stillbirth of my daughter Cheyenne, and 4 miscarriages later... we are COMPLETE!
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