[dakotabluebaby]

Oh I've been there. your lucky to have 1/2!

What we found though when we broke it down to who was approving and who did not (we are very analitical) we discovered a very familar pattern. The people who did not approve were the same people who tried to talk us out of getting married (after 2 years of friendship and 3 1/2 years of dating) they were also the people who didn't seem happy in there own lives.

I found I had to listen to my own heart before anyone else. They will support you when the child is there or when the decision is made, everyone's tune changed (well almost) when there was no questions left, (ie they knew they weren't going to change our mind)

So basically Yeah, your not alone.