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I am an adoptive parent to a child whose father is serving life for capital murder & dread the day he asks any info on his birth parents. I believe in the truth (age appropriate) Drugs are an addiction & genetic - it is what it is-it's wonderful that you & his dad have had a love for each other that resulted in him-my son is not as fortunate. I think you can tell the truth w/ out judgement - if you've been disappointed that's acceptable too. I'd give an adult the benefit of the doubt. My son will know his bio parents love him & just couldnt' care for him they way they wanted him to be cared for (it's the truth) I'm sure his bio dad loves him (& you) but can't overcome his sickness at this time.
Good luck & keep us posted.
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