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Thank you, everyone, so much. I truly appreciate everyone's thoughts and suggestions. I know it's the right thing to do to tell him about his birth father. I never thought about the genetics part. And I will NOT bash him in any way and will be as brief and honest as I can be. My son seems like a very intelligent young man (just turned 24) so I know that he will be smart enough to decide what to do with the information I give him about his birth father. His father is a huge manipulator and BS artist but can be a nice person. Believe me, I still love that man for some reason and our son is a bond that we will always have together. I just don't want my son hurt by this man (or his family) the way that I was.
I have told my son from the beginning that I want us both to be honest with each other. This was just going to be one of the hard parts.
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