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Hi. I am in AP in an OA with substance abusers. I've had to set up clear boundaries in order to make this work but feel DS has the right to know them. I also worry he will be hurt when he hears some of the things they have done in the past but I accept that addiction is an illness and will help DS to see that too. Your son is an adult and deserves to know who his bio Father is. It might hurt him to know what kind of guy he is but if I were you I'd give him the info and then stay out of it. You and this man are two separate people and you don't have to explain why you loved him once. Enjoy getting to know your son again and give him the information he seeks. He probably asked because he's ready to know.
I wish you a wonderful relationship with your son moving forward!
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