[Tudu]

I don't know anything about having both dx but I can tell you my kids' CW insisted they were all bonded to her and their FPs. It was not true. My kids were/are great at making people feel like they are bonded, they are extremely charming. It took over a year for one of mine to show her true self even just a little. I have another that faked a speech disorder, it was so severe we couldn't understand more than 10% of what she was saying and when I called her on it one day, it just stopped. I was shocked to say the least. I, personally, will bnever trust a well intentioned CW again. I will only go on what the FP, teacher, and therapists say b/c they are the ones the child sees.