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I think what you bought her sounds lovely and think it was very sweet of you to consider her and support her in such a way. So many of these bios are lacking any real support in their lives and usually it's been a life long lack of real support which tends to make it near impossible for them to overcome and although it's not our obligation by any means as foster parents to become their support it certainly does take a very kind heart and special personality to offer that kind of generosity and support as you have. I know sadly I seriously struggle with that myself. In fact I refuse to be of any support to my girls bios because I just can't seem to allow myself to risk the involvement. It's a personal choice and I really do think you have done a wonderful thing and I don't frown upon it in the least even though I myself can honestly admit I'm incapable of doing it myself.
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