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I have a friend IRL who was "matched" and then became concerned because the e mom had met the dad on vacation, did not remember his name and said only that he "looked like the guy in ZZ Top." (I am dating myself here, but google if you don't know ZZ Top). The reality is is whether the kid was adopted or not, he likely "never" will know who his birth dad is (and may or may not care, but what can you do?). (My friend did adopt the child and he is so flipping cute...and looks nothing like ZZ Top!).
Btw, we have an OA with DD's birth parents and my DH and DD's birth dad never "chat" either...it's weird how so much falls to women (as in almost all things! haha!).
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