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Finally I have no advice but your post stood out for me because we were only a week away from adopting a baby His birth mother (she is a birth mother now we are just not the AP's) said she didn't know who it was and then ....well let's just say we found out not only did she know but she was secretly married to somebody else in a state where the husband is the assumed father. It was a mess!
Having dealt with many potential bio father issues on our journey I just wanted to say good luck and I hope you find some great advice here. I'm sorry your child will not get all the medical info. and other info about heritage etc.
At the very least though it will be something to know in your hearts and be at peace with the fact that the adoption is legal.
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“Sometimes the strength of motherhood is greater than natural laws.” - Barbara Kingsolver
"If you have love, you don't need to have anything else, and if you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have." - Sir James M. Barrie
"Nothing's gonna change my world." - John Lennon
Last edited by Stormster : 07-18-2008 at 05:35 AM.
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