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You gotta love the system and their emotional blackmail.
Where is the other baby currently staying? Does that family not want to adopt him or her?
To be honest, if they don't accept your offer for lifelong sibling contact, then I would say yes to the sibling. Three kids born the same year would be a lot of work for you and your family, but what wouldn't you do to keep your little girl?
DCF obviously loves placing short term babies with you so if you really wanted to continue, if you had the time and could manage four babies, I'm sure they would make you an exception to the rule. I've seen them do it numerous, numerous times for families they love and can depend on.
Best of luck with your decision.
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