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I am not a first mom-I'm an adoptee, hopefully it's ok that I answer. I think I would do WHATEVER I could (In my power) to help her keep her baby. If it meant babysitting, taking her to the dr., helping with clothes, diapers, etc.
In fact, I have a friend who unfortunately has had 3 unplanned pregnancies in the last 3 years. She really has no money. I've gotten her things off craigs list and freecycle, I've bought a lot of diapers and have dressed her kids. I can't afford a lot, so many things have come from Walmart and even second-hand. I have gone without so many things, but I don't care. It's more important to me that she have her kids and that they are taken care of and never in a jam where authorities or CPS could come in.
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