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Half-Sib threat to fold adoption
My CW came today to tell me state worker said WE Have to take the half-sib...of my medical baby that I have had for 14 months...born at 1 lb...sat with her hours on end while in NICU for 4 months...home to me on oxygen, tube feed, many surgeries, severe dev. delays...therapies, home nurse, endless doctor appts...I nursed her to where she is now...bio-mom never saw her...left her to fight for her life...I picked up the pieces...went to the end of the world and back knowing it would be a solid TPR...NOW that the state gets involved cuz of heading for adoption...The state dropped the bomb....take the 20 month old half-sib(they are only 7 months apart)...the 2 never even met....OR ELSE.. they will photo list them as sibs and a hope to find a home....my heart is tearing right now...she is my everything - I am all she knows...NOW THIS....we are also at the same point in the TPR/adoption of our other 2 year. old.....that could poss. put us at 3 little ones...all born in the same year...remember the one is severley medical....what are they thinking...any advice? on what to do?...wanted to always to only adopt 2 leaving my 3rd spot to always continue fostering....I would have to stop if we decided all 3 to keep my FD)..my mind is spinning....
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[color="magenta"][font="Georgia"]  Mommy to 10 
Bio D ~ 14
Bio S ~ 13
Bio S ~ 12
Step Twin Girls ~14/14
Step S ~ 16
Fost/Adopt 
 6-9-07 Princess(placed @ 14mths old) ~ now 2.5 years old *TPR filed 
 5/07 Preemie sweetie...born @ 1lb had 4 month NICU stay/home with us 9/07  TPR filed
 Our FD Sister(22 mths) joined us 8/08~TPR filed
Waiting for new sib ~ due in Dec
Former sweeties 
9/06~4/08 Blue Eyes, 1 day old~@19mths to pre-adopt home.
3/07~5/07 tough guy,21mths old~joined sibs
5/08-6/08 D-man~7mths
6/08-8/08 -Thumbalina~ 2 days
10/08-11/08 Bella~8 mths
"God grant me the serenity ~ to accept the things I cannot change, To change the things I can and give me the wisdom to know the difference"
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